Written in the Stars: The Astrology of Soulmate, Karmic, and Twin Flame Relationship, by Kate Rose
New World Library, 1608689158, 296 pages, September 2024
Have you ever wondered if you were compatible with someone based on your astrology charts? Until recently most astrological compatibility books have been based on sun signs, but focusing only one aspect of the chart doesn’t give the whole picture. This is especially true when you begin to understand there’s different types of relationships we experience in life. Not all relationships are the same; people come into our lives for different reasons at different seasons. And learning to decode astrological energy is one of the best ways to gain more insight into your romantic life and the nature of your relationships.
Written in the Stars: The Astrology of Soulmates, Karmic, and Twin Flame Relationships by Kate Rose is one of the most interesting books I’ve ever read on the topic of romance and astrology. Rose, an experienced astrologer and relationship coach, delves into the astrological aspects that influence romantic connections. She provides readers with a unique blend of practical advice and spiritual wisdom, offering guidance on how to navigate the complexities of love. Through an exploration of the intricate dance between fate and personal choice in the realm of love and relationships, readers become empowered to trust the flow of relationships as they have a cosmic purpose to fulfill.
“The cosmos is always waiting for you to read the ancient code of astrology like braille on your heart that’s been starved for hope, knowing that once you do, your soul opens to see clearly and choose differently.”1
Rose identities three types of love: soulmate, karmic, and twin flame. There’s a section dedicated to each type, along with the relevant astrological aspects that influence that type the most. And it’s the combination of type of love with astrological backing that yields fascinating insights into one’s relationships. There’s a lot to discover, whether or not you’re currently in a relationship, because you’ll start to reflect on how your relationships up until now have progressed or repeated patterns, offering insight into the type of lessons you’re learning through love.
According to Rose, soulmate relationships are usually most people’s entry into love, representing when we think love should look like. She describes how “it can feel like you’re with your best friend because there are little to no challenges, but that is also why there is rarely any growth.”2 A key lesson for this type of relationship “is that what is best for your is not what is most like you but, rather, what complements you.”3 To guide readers through identifying a soulmate and delving deeper into their chart, Rose teaches about Saturn, Mercury, and the dynamic between the Sun and the Moon in compatibility.
Next, there’s karmic relationships. These are the uncomfortable ones that hit you like a bolt of lightning. There’s no denying the chemistry, but there’s also plenty of challenges to overcome as you learn to honor your truth, healing old wounds, discovering your self worth, and relate in a healthy way to your partner. It can often take years of a karmic on-again, off-again situation to fully integrate the lessons. Rose writes, “This feeling of not being able to escape the connection is one of the hallmark traits of the karmic relationship.”4In this section Rose teaches the astrological signatures of the South Node, how to find balance by looking at the elemental make-up of one’s chart, and archetypes one moves through as they mature, and how to use astrology to heal childhood wounds.
“It’s when your truth aligns with the truth of another, when both of you have removed your masks and you’re standing free as sovereign beings under the light of the full moon ready to go all in, that love finally finds you.”5
The last section is dedicated to twin flame love, or “healthy divine love” as Rose also calls it. She refers to this stage as the “soft love era”6 “where you open to receive a love that genuinely does feel like home–even if it’s a home you have never before known.”7 Astrologically, Rose teaches about the placements of Venus and the North Node and the Rising sign in one’s chart. These can point the way towards living an authentic life where you are seen, valued, and loved for being exactly who you are.
One strength of this book is Rose’s ability to balance spiritual growth with practical relationship advice. The real-life examples and anecdotes she shares add a relatable and human touch to the astrological concepts. No matter where you are in your love journey, Rose provides guidance, hope, and a promise there’s an amazing future ahead. She also consistently reminds readers that all our love relationships have happened exactly when they were meant to, offering the lessons needed at that time.
“Nothing is lost, and nothing is wasted, because as you surrender into the arms of love, time evaporates in the fulfillment of understanding.”8
Her empowering messages resonate throughout the book, making it not just a guide to astrology, but a manual for healing, personal growth, and self-discovery. In each section, there are blank charts readers can fill in their astrological placements alongside their partner’s for comparison as they learn about astrological signatures from Rose. And at the end of each section, there’s journal prompts, affirmations, and moon rituals that the reader can do. These practical exercises and reflection questions really help to deepen their understanding of the material and apply it to one’s own life. This book truly offers a deep dive into your natal chart and the charts of those you love.
Overall, Written in the Stars is a thoughtful and enlightening book that offers valuable insights into the interplay between astrology and relationships. Rose’s compassionate and knowledgeable approach to relationships makes it a worthwhile read for anyone interested in exploring the cosmic influences on their love life. I have gained so much insight by looking back on my past relationships to see how the different partners were a reflection of what I was moving through personally at different stages of life; I also had great discussions with my husband while reading that opened up new layers of intimacy in our relationship. Whether you’re single or in a relationship, this book is sure to provide revelations about your love life and point the way towards cultivating healthy divine love.
Alanna Kali is an astrologer, numerologist, and pioneer spirit that loves to explore life through the lens of depth psychology. She has a passion for studying the humanities and social trends. Her academic work is centered upon reuniting body, mind, and spirit through eco-psychology. She loves reading, spending time in nature, and travel.