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Déjà Rêvé and Love at Second Sight, by Daniel Bourke

Déjà Rêvé and Love at Second Sight: The Experience of Meeting in Dreams before Meeting in Life, by Daniel Bourke
Destiny Books, 979-8888502716, 320 pages, January 2026

For those who are dream lovers, Déjà Rêvé and Love at Second Sight by Daniel Bourke is a fascinating compendium of unique dream experiences. This book explores the phenomenon of déjà rêvé (“already dreamed”), the experience of encountering something in waking life that you feel you’ve specifically dreamed before, not just vaguely recognized. The vast amount of documentation surrounding this experience makes it a worthwhile topic of exploration, especially for those intrigued by the idea of precognition.

“Is it possible to dream or otherwise mysteriously envision a future spouse, acquaintance, helper, healer, or even a shaman or saint before meeting them in life? To literally see the face, hear the voice, or sense the presence of another whom you are yet to meet and are nevertheless destined to do so? If our only witnesses were the voluminous records of legend, lyric, and lore on all corners of the globe then answer would be a resounding yes.”1

Jam-packed with hundreds of instances of déjà rêvé, Bourke has organized the chapters of this book by general themes. One of the first types of déjà rêvé covered focuses on healers, saints, sufis, and sheiks. The general focus of these stories is when people had spiritually significant dreams and then soon met the person in the dreams for healing or spiritual growth. Another chapter focuses on how dream visions aid people in making real life decisions. For instance, according to The Schism in England, translated by Pedro Calderon de la Barca, Henry VIII had a dream of Anne Boleyn before he ever met her.

Speaking of fated romances, there’s plenty of stories of dreaming of lovers before meeting them in real life. One of my favorite stories was from the biography of a 107-year-old man from Arkansas who dreamed about heading to a terminal and seeing a beautiful woman standing there who said to him, “You come to carry me home, James? I’m your wife.”2 and then he met the same woman in real life at a New Year’s Eve party later on.

Other chapters do focus on folklore surrounding divination and magic in regard to this dream phenomena, as well as the religious impact déjà rêvé had on some people after their experience. Bourke shares tidbits such as how among the Ilocano (a Filipino ethnolinguistic group), “a man sleeps with a dipper of water near his bed in order to see the reflection of his future spouse, needing to wake at exactly twelve o’clock.”3

Then there’s also a story about a man whose youth pastor encouraged him to pray to God for the person he would marry in the future. He then received a vision of the cross pendant his future wife would be wearing. Lo and behold, he met her when he went to visit a new church and the secretary was wearing the pendant. Wouldn’t you know it, the cross pendant had been a gift from her grandmother, who had told her it had special meaning related to her future husband, who would be drawn to it. Now, it might be easy to brush off these tales as romantic, exaggerated love stories that signify a relationship has a divine blessing, but the sheer number of tales Bourke shares really does expand the reader’s perception of just how common déjà rêvé has been throughout time.

One of my favorite chapters in the book is “Picture Perfect”, which had a sections like “Media and Murder in Motion” and “Death, Ghosts, and Near Death”. Can’t help it—I love thrillers! But beyond the typical dreaming of a partner or spiritual aid, these stories had practical applications, such as solving a crime or reconnecting loved ones with someone who had departed.

What makes the book stand out is its scope: it gathers hundreds of accounts from folklore, historical texts, memoirs, and modern reports, aiming to create one of the first comprehensive collections of this phenomenon. While modern society might have an unhealthy dose of skepticism, many cultures historically have accepted dreams as predictive or spiritual messages. Bourke pulls from an unusually wide range of sources (saints, shamans, historical anecdotes, and contemporary experiences) showing that dream-foretelling appears across cultures and eras. This gives the book a mythic, almost archetypal feeling, as though you’re reading a global folklore archive rather than a single-author thesis.

This said, I found reading it to be overwhelming at times. It took me a few months to make my way though, and it was mostly because I kept getting mentally overloaded. While I was drawn to Déjà Rêvé and Love at Second Sight because I wanted to be immersed in the liminal space of dreams and discover something about their ethereal nature, the content is more along the lines of reporting on this dream experience rather than providing discussion on its significance or the meaning of reality understood through the exploration of this paranormal phenomena.

I would often get a bit of whiplash with how it jumped from one story to the next, quickly spanning time periods and cultures. There’s cohesion, but it’s definitely a book that keeps you in your mind, bombarded with recorded accounts rather than tapping into the spiritual dimension. I actually found this amusing, as dream books usually make me feel a bit spacey or ungrounded, while this one made it feel too stuck in reality with names, dates, and recorded experiences spanning centuries and the whole world.

Plus, the unfamiliarity with many of the cultures or historical time periods had me grappling just to wrap my head around the context of the story, ultimately preventing me from fully engaging with the content. I am all for cross-cultural examination, but one paragraph being about a Burmese writer in the early 1990s quickly followed by another featuring a tale of an Welsh American explorer in central Africa in the 1800s, which within the same paragraph talks about another American explorer living with the Ojibwa Indians of the Great Lakes between 1763 and 1764, you can see how my head could get spinning pretty quickly. Like where am I located in time and space?! I guess in some ways, I did get that untethered dream experience, but not how I was hoping!

Overall, for readers interested in dreamwork, synchronicity, psychic or intuitive phenomena, this comprehensive text will feel quite validating, highlighting just how common this phenomena of déjà rêvé is worldwide. I would definitely recommend Déjà Rêvé and Love at Second Sight for those who enjoy gathering stories, as Bourke collects and presents rather than rigorously interrogates. The documentation of the mystical experience of already dreamed gives backing to further discussion about the nature of reality, purpose of dreams, and the way people are connected. This book is a great launching pad for further study of a very intriguing topic!

Telepathic Tales, by Daniel Bourke

Telepathic Tales: Precognition and Clairvoyance in Legend, Lyric and Lore, by Daniel Bourke
Destiny Books, 9798888501733, 320 pages, 2025

Across cultures and centuries, stories of extrasensory perception have surfaced like whispers from the unseen world. From the visions of ancient Greek oracles to the ancestral wisdom carried in Indigenous traditions across the world, humanity has always grappled with the possibility that our senses extend far beyond what can be measured or explained. In Telepathic Tales: Precognition and Clairvoyance in Legend, Lyric and Lore, Daniel Bourke takes readers on a cross-cultural voyage through these extraordinary experiences, documenting accounts both mythical and lived. With care and curiosity, he invites us to view them as meaningful parts of the human story.

Daniel Bourke is an Irish poet, songwriter and author. He has published articles in a number of journals and magazines, as well as Apparitions at the Moment of Death in 2024. He is expected to publish Déjà Rêvé and Love at Second Sight: The Experience of Meeting in Dreams before Meeting in Life in 2026.

Beginning each chapter with a provocative quote, Bourke dives into the material with the first few pages. There is no preamble or explanation, just a thorough presentation of clairvoyance and examples of intuition and foresight. From this discussion, he moves into visions; visions where people said, “I knew you were in trouble.”4

“The unconscious helps us by communicating things, or making figurative illusions. It has other ways, too, of informing us of things which by all logic we could not possibly know.  -Carl Gustav Jung”5

Burke shares several stories about people in the medical industry who received messages or visions regarding patients and were able to get to them in time to render lifesaving aid. In fact, he notes a book that shares many examples of “nonverbal and potentially telepathic Interactions between therapists and their patients.”6 This is something I had never considered, although I have experienced telepathic messages from my husband and other family members and friends.  

Next, Bourke takes us on a journey to learn more about deathbed visions, telepathic messages, and unusual phenomena. This subject is covered in two different chapters and relates to “nearing death awareness”7 and “dreams of the dying”8.

“That the mortally afflicted person might attain a prophetical or divinatory ability is an idea as old, as we have seen, as are the deathbed visions of Gilgamesh.”9

My favorite story in this chapter relates to a man in his seventies, who passed away on a Tuesday in Connecticut, only a day after his sister passed away in Ohio. Before his passing, he mentioned seeing his sister Mary in the hospital. At this time, no one knew that Mary had died. He and Mary had been very close. There were other stories of people looking up to the ceiling and carrying on conversations with people who had gone on before them. In my own life, when my aunt was passing, she said that she could see her mother standing by her bed. My grandmother had died about 30 years prior.

In subsequent chapters, Bourke discusses zombies and vampires as well as “cross cultural ESP”10, the origins of plant cures, and the idea of shared visions or dreams. He includes stories and research from many countries, different cultures, and varied spiritual traditions. For example, He discusses the South American Tukano and their medicine men. The Tukano believe that the creator of the Universe gave them a special plant known as curare. They also believe that “their botanical knowledge was derived from plant-induced hallucinations.”11

Bourke also includes many other tales of cures and medical aid. One story involves the Cherokee Indians who believe that “the spirit of the appropriate plant will suggest the proper remedy in a dream.”12 I love this!  My family can trace its lineage to a Cherokee woman in the 1800’s.

Bourke has structured this book as a patchwork of short stories, vignettes, and interludes. Some stories are starkly realistic, set in familiar neighborhoods and workplaces; others are more surreal, evoking a dreamlike feel. This narrative mosaic allows Bourke to explore the concept of telepathy and dreams through a variety of lenses (social, psychological, philosophical) without ever letting the book feel repetitive or preachy.

Stylistically, Bourke is a master of restraint and suggestion. He can describe the most fantastic phenomena in prose that is understated and elegant. His character sketches are insightful and compassionate. And, as a careful researcher, each story and each example is documented in the exhaustive notes and bibliography sections.  He even includes a lengthy index to allow the reader to find and review information or stories in the book.

Beyond its carefully researched myths, tales, and stories, Telepathic Tales is a book of ideas. Bourke is clearly fascinated by the philosophical and spiritual implications of telepathy, not only as a type of futuristic communication, but as a metaphor for empathy, compassion and understanding. Throughout the collection, he engages playfully but seriously with questions of consciousness: Are we truly ourselves if our thoughts are never private? How might empathy lead to harmony, or can perfect understanding breed new forms of conflict?

The stories do not provide easy answers, instead inviting the reader to grapple with ambiguity and uncertainty. In this way, his book belongs to the best tradition of spiritual non-fiction, which use the tools of imagination to work within his framework of research and storytelling. Bourke is truly an anthropologist of dreams, telepathy, and near-death experiences. I enjoyed his writing style and the stories he shares so that we can better understand the spirit world and our part within it.

Telepathic Tales would be enjoyed by a person who is newly awakening or newly learning about spirit communication, as well as someone who has been studying telepathy and dreams for a long time. I will be recommending this book to my clients and mentoring students. The real-world examples of spirit communication and telepathy will be supportive and empowering to those who are traveling on a spiritual path. 

“What we do know is that a large minority of people all over the world commonly experience contact with their dead – sometimes regularly, sometimes as one-offs – and that there is both an academic and a personal need to know why. -Alan Kellehear”13